She’ll Learn the Value of Earning Things for Herself
Thoughts from the “KARATE GUY”:
Gary V. talks about it the best. It’s our generation that has created the 8th place trophy. We are the generation that has enabled our youth by creating the thought that everyone is a winner and no one ever fail when in reality, everyday we are winning or losing. The 70s and 80s kids never grew up with an 8th place trophy. Most of us never grew up with a participation “award” and we did just fine.
One of the best lessons my daughters have learned on the mat and in competition is that some days you just lose. As good as they thought they were, as good as I thought they were that day, there was someone better. They have learned and are still learning how to lose with as much honor and respect as when they win.
Another thing that I’ve watched them learn is pride. The look in their eyes after a big test when they find out that they passed, the look of exhaustion and uncertainty dissipates and the sense of pride fills them. They learned day one on the mat that nothing will ever be handed to them. They will have to give their all if they want to succeed. Even though I’m their Poppa, at that moment in time I’m Master Ruth, not Poppa. Poppa is there after the test or competition to celebrate their success or to lift them up when they come up short.
Learning how to win and lose like a champion, and learning how to have a strong work ethic is one of the best things that I think my girls are being taught.
In part 4 of this 6 part series – She’ll Learn the Value of Earning Things for Herself
The article by Century Martial Arts:
Most martial arts use a belt ranking system to indicate a student’s level of training. In order to earn a new color of belt, a student must demonstrate that she has become skilled enough to surpass her current belt level. Sometimes, a new belt is awarded at the instructor’s discretion. Other times, students must pass a test to prove they are ready. Either way, getting a new belt is a big deal in martial arts and is celebrated.
When your daughter earns her first new belt, she’ll feel a huge sense of pride and accomplishment at having done something remarkable. She will realize that with hard work, time and dedication, there is nothing she can’t do.
A special thanks to Century Martial Arts for this amazing content in this article!
Charles Ruth is a husband, father of three, and the owner and Master Instructor of Fusion Martial Arts in Dandridge, Tennessee. His primary focus is to help today’s youth become inspired to live their best life through martial arts.
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